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2 Samuel 13

1BSBAfter some time, David’s son Amnon fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of David’s son Absalom.

KJVAnd it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.

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  • 1 Chronicles 3:9

    9These were all the sons of David, besides the sons by his concubines. And Tamar was their sister.

    Open 1 Chronicles 3:9
  • 2 Samuel 3:2–3

    2And sons were born to David in Hebron: His firstborn was Amnon, by Ahinoam of Jezreel;

    3his second was Chileab, by Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel; his third was Absalom, the son of Maacah daughter of King Talmai of Geshur;

    Open 2 Samuel 3:2–3
  • 2 Samuel 13:15

    15Then Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was greater than the love he previously had. “Get up!” he said to her. “Be gone!”

    Open 2 Samuel 13:15
  • 1 Chronicles 3:2

    2the third was Absalom the son of Maacah daughter of King Talmai of Geshur; the fourth was Adonijah the son of Haggith;

    Open 1 Chronicles 3:2
  • 2 Samuel 14:27

    27Three sons were born to Absalom, and a daughter named Tamar, who was a beautiful woman.

    Open 2 Samuel 14:27
  • Proverbs 6:25

    25Do not lust in your heart for her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.

    Open Proverbs 6:25

2BSBAmnon was sick with frustration over his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed implausible for him to do anything to her.

KJVAnd Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her.

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  • 2 Corinthians 7:10

    10Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation without regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.

    Open 2 Corinthians 7:10
  • Song of Solomon 5:8

    8O daughters of Jerusalem, I adjure you, if you find my beloved, tell him I am sick with love.

    Open Song of Solomon 5:8
  • 1 Kings 21:4

    4So Ahab went to his palace, sullen and angry because Naboth the Jezreelite had told him, “I will not give you the inheritance of my fathers.” He lay down on his bed, turned his face away, and refused to eat.

    Open 1 Kings 21:4

3BSBNow Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah. Jonadab was a very shrewd man,

KJVBut Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man.

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  • 1 Samuel 16:9

    9Next Jesse presented Shammah, but Samuel said, “The Lord has not chosen this one either.”

    Open 1 Samuel 16:9
  • 1 Corinthians 3:19

    19For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God’s sight. As it is written: “He catches the wise in their craftiness.”

    Open 1 Corinthians 3:19
  • Esther 5:14

    14His wife Zeresh and all his friends told him, “Have them build a gallows fifty cubits high, and ask the king in the morning to have Mordecai hanged on it. Then go to the banquet with the king and enjoy yourself.” The advice pleased Haman, and he had the gallows constructed.

    Open Esther 5:14
  • Esther 6:13

    13Haman told his wife Zeresh and all his friends everything that had happened. His advisers and his wife Zeresh said to him, “Since Mordecai, before whom your downfall has begun, is Jewish, you will not prevail against him—for surely you will fall before him.”

    Open Esther 6:13
  • Genesis 38:20

    20Now when Judah sent his friend Hirah the Adullamite with the young goat to collect the items he had left with the woman, he could not find her.

    Open Genesis 38:20
  • 2 Samuel 14:2

    2So Joab sent to Tekoa to bring a wise woman from there. He told her, “Please pretend to be a mourner; put on clothes for mourning and do not anoint yourself with oil. Act like a woman who has mourned for the dead a long time.

    Open 2 Samuel 14:2

4BSBand he asked Amnon, “Why are you, the son of the king, so depressed morning after morning? Won’t you tell me?” Amnon replied, “I am in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

KJVAnd he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.

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  • Luke 12:32

    32Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father is pleased to give you the kingdom.

    Open Luke 12:32
  • Isaiah 3:9

    9The expression on their faces testifies against them, and like Sodom they flaunt their sin; they do not conceal it. Woe to them, for they have brought disaster upon themselves.

    Open Isaiah 3:9
  • Leviticus 18:9

    9You must not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.

    Open Leviticus 18:9
  • Esther 5:13–14

    13Yet none of this satisfies me as long as I see Mordecai the Jew sitting at the king’s gate.”

    14His wife Zeresh and all his friends told him, “Have them build a gallows fifty cubits high, and ask the king in the morning to have Mordecai hanged on it. Then go to the banquet with the king and enjoy yourself.” The advice pleased Haman, and he had the gallows constructed.

    Open Esther 5:13–14
  • Micah 7:3

    3Both hands are skilled at evil; the prince and the judge demand a bribe. When the powerful utters his evil desire, they all conspire together.

    Open Micah 7:3
  • Jeremiah 8:12

    12Are they ashamed of the abomination they have committed? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush. So they will fall among the fallen; when I punish them, they will collapse, says the Lord.

    Open Jeremiah 8:12

5BSBJonadab told him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend you are ill. When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare it in my sight so I may watch her and eat it from her hand.’”

KJVAnd Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it , and eat it at her hand.

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  • Mark 6:24–25

    24Then she went out and asked her mother, “What should I request?” And her mother answered, “The head of John the Baptist.”

    25At once the girl hurried back to the king with her request: “I want you to give me the head of John the Baptist on a platter immediately.”

    Open Mark 6:24–25
  • Acts 23:15

    15Now then, you and the Sanhedrin petition the commander to bring him down to you on the pretext of examining his case more carefully. We are ready to kill him on the way.”

    Open Acts 23:15
  • Proverbs 19:27

    27If you cease to hear instruction, my son, you will stray from the words of knowledge.

    Open Proverbs 19:27
  • Psalm 50:18–19

    18When you see a thief, you befriend him, and throw in your lot with adulterers.

    19You unleash your mouth for evil and harness your tongue to deceit.

    Open Psalm 50:18–19
  • 2 Samuel 16:21–17:4

    21Ahithophel replied, “Sleep with your father’s concubines, whom he has left to take care of the palace. When all Israel hears that you have become a stench to your father, then the hands of all who are with you will be strengthened.”

    Open 2 Samuel 16:21–17:4

6BSBSo Amnon lay down and feigned illness. When the king came to see him, Amnon said, “Please let my sister Tamar come and make a couple of cakes in my sight, so that I may eat from her hand.”

KJVSo Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.

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  • Genesis 18:6

    6So Abraham hurried into the tent and said to Sarah, “Quick! Prepare three seahs of fine flour, knead it, and bake some bread.”

    Open Genesis 18:6
  • Matthew 13:33

    33He told them still another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like leaven that a woman took and mixed into three measures of flour, until all of it was leavened.”

    Open Matthew 13:33

7BSBThen David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Please go to the house of Amnon your brother and prepare a meal for him.”

KJVThen David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat.

8BSBSo Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked them.

KJVSo Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it , and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes.

9BSBThen she brought the pan and set it down before him, but he refused to eat. “Send everyone away!” said Amnon. And everyone went out.

KJVAnd she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.

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  • Genesis 45:1

    1Then Joseph could no longer control himself before all his attendants, and he cried out, “Send everyone away from me!” So none of them were with Joseph when he made himself known to his brothers.

    Open Genesis 45:1
  • John 3:20

    20Everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come into the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.

    Open John 3:20
  • Judges 3:19

    19But upon reaching the idols near Gilgal, he himself turned back and said, “I have a secret message for you, O king.” “Silence,” said the king, and all his attendants left him.

    Open Judges 3:19

10BSBThen Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, so that I may eat it from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes she had made and went to her brother Amnon’s bedroom.

KJVAnd Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.

11BSBAnd when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her and said, “Come lie with me, my sister!”

KJVAnd when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.

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  • Genesis 39:11–12

    11One day, however, Joseph went into the house to attend to his work, and not a single household servant was inside.

    12She grabbed Joseph by his cloak and said, “Sleep with me!” But leaving his cloak in her hand, he escaped and ran outside.

    Open Genesis 39:11–12

12BSB“No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not violate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!

KJVAnd she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

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  • Leviticus 20:17

    17If a man marries his sister, whether the daughter of his father or of his mother, and they have sexual relations, it is a disgrace. They must be cut off in the sight of their people. He has uncovered the nakedness of his sister; he shall bear his iniquity.

    Open Leviticus 20:17
  • Judges 20:6

    6Then I took my concubine, cut her into pieces, and sent her throughout the land of Israel’s inheritance, because they had committed a lewd and disgraceful act in Israel.

    Open Judges 20:6
  • Judges 19:23

    23The owner of the house went out and said to them, “No, my brothers, do not do this wicked thing! After all, this man is a guest in my house. Do not commit this outrage.

    Open Judges 19:23
  • Genesis 34:7

    7When Jacob’s sons heard what had happened, they returned from the field. They were filled with grief and fury, because Shechem had committed an outrage in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done.

    Open Genesis 34:7
  • Leviticus 18:11

    11You must not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father’s wife, born to your father; she is your sister.

    Open Leviticus 18:11
  • Leviticus 18:9

    9You must not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.

    Open Leviticus 18:9

13BSBWhere could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of the fools in Israel! Please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.”

KJVAnd I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

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  • Genesis 19:8

    8Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them to you, and you can do to them as you please. But do not do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof.”

    Open Genesis 19:8
  • Judges 19:24

    24Look, let me bring out my virgin daughter and the man’s concubine, and you can use them and do with them as you wish. But do not do such a vile thing to this man.”

    Open Judges 19:24
  • Genesis 20:12

    12Besides, she really is my sister, the daughter of my father—though not the daughter of my mother—and she became my wife.

    Open Genesis 20:12

14BSBBut Amnon refused to listen to her, and being stronger, he violated her and lay with her.

KJVHowbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

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  • 2 Samuel 12:11

    11This is what the Lord says: ‘I will raise up adversity against you from your own house. Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to another, and he will lie with them in broad daylight.

    Open 2 Samuel 12:11
  • Esther 7:8

    8Just as the king returned from the palace garden to the banquet hall, Haman was falling on the couch where Esther was reclining. The king exclaimed, “Would he actually assault the queen while I am in the palace?” As soon as the words had left the king’s mouth, they covered Haman’s face.

    Open Esther 7:8
  • Judges 20:5

    5And during the night, the men of Gibeah rose up against me and surrounded the house. They intended to kill me, but they abused my concubine, and she died.

    Open Judges 20:5
  • Deuteronomy 22:25–27

    25But if the man encounters a betrothed woman in the open country, and he overpowers her and lies with her, only the man who has done this must die.

    26Do nothing to the young woman, because she has committed no sin worthy of death. This case is just like one in which a man attacks his neighbor and murders him.

    Open Deuteronomy 22:25–27

15BSBThen Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was greater than the love he previously had. “Get up!” he said to her. “Be gone!”

KJVThen Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.

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  • Ezekiel 23:17

    17Then the Babylonians came to her, to the bed of love, and in their lust they defiled her. But after she had been defiled by them, she turned away in disgust.

    Open Ezekiel 23:17

16BSB“No,” she replied, “sending me away is worse than this great wrong you have already done to me!” But he refused to listen to her.

KJVAnd she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

17BSBInstead, he called to his attendant and said, “Throw this woman out and bolt the door behind her!”

KJVThen he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.

18BSBSo Amnon’s attendant threw her out and bolted the door behind her. Now Tamar was wearing a robe of many colors, because this is what the king’s virgin daughters wore.

KJVAnd she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her.

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  • Genesis 37:3

    3Now Israel loved Joseph more than his other sons, because Joseph had been born to him in his old age; so he made him a robe of many colors.

    Open Genesis 37:3
  • Judges 5:30

    30‘Are they not finding and dividing the spoil—a girl or two for each warrior, a plunder of dyed garments for Sisera, the spoil of embroidered garments for the neck of the looter?’

    Open Judges 5:30
  • Psalm 45:13–14

    13All glorious is the princess in her chamber; her gown is embroidered with gold.

    14In colorful garments she is led to the king; her virgin companions are brought before you.

    Open Psalm 45:13–14
  • Genesis 37:32

    32They sent the robe of many colors to their father and said, “We found this. Examine it to see whether it is your son’s robe or not.”

    Open Genesis 37:32
  • Genesis 37:23

    23So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe—the robe of many colors he was wearing—

    Open Genesis 37:23

19BSBAnd Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her robe. And putting her hand on her head, she went away crying aloud.

KJVAnd Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.

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  • Joshua 7:6

    6Then Joshua tore his clothes and fell facedown before the ark of the Lord until evening, as did the elders of Israel; and they all sprinkled dust on their heads.

    Open Joshua 7:6
  • Jeremiah 2:37

    37Moreover, you will leave that place with your hands on your head, for the Lord has rejected those you trust; you will not prosper by their help.”

    Open Jeremiah 2:37
  • 2 Samuel 1:2

    2On the third day a man with torn clothes and dust on his head arrived from Saul’s camp. When he came to David, he fell to the ground to pay him homage.

    Open 2 Samuel 1:2
  • 2 Samuel 1:11

    11Then David took hold of his own clothes and tore them, and all the men who were with him did the same.

    Open 2 Samuel 1:11
  • 1 Samuel 4:12

    12That same day a Benjamite ran from the battle line all the way to Shiloh, with his clothes torn and dirt on his head.

    Open 1 Samuel 4:12
  • Job 2:12

    12When they lifted up their eyes from afar, they could barely recognize Job. They began to weep aloud, and each man tore his robe and threw dust in the air over his head.

    Open Job 2:12

20BSBHer brother Absalom said to her, “Has your brother Amnon been with you? Be quiet for now, my sister. He is your brother. Do not take this thing to heart.” So Tamar lived as a desolate woman in the house of her brother Absalom.

KJVAnd Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.

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  • Romans 12:19

    19Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.”

    Open Romans 12:19
  • Genesis 46:15

    15These are the sons of Leah born to Jacob in Paddan-aram, in addition to his daughter Dinah. The total number of sons and daughters was thirty-three.

    Open Genesis 46:15
  • Genesis 34:2

    2When Shechem son of Hamor the Hivite, the prince of the region, saw her, he took her and lay with her by force.

    Open Genesis 34:2
  • Proverbs 26:24

    24A hateful man disguises himself with his speech, but he lays up deceit in his heart.

    Open Proverbs 26:24

21BSBWhen King David heard all this, he was furious.

KJVBut when king David heard of all these things, he was very wroth.

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  • Genesis 34:7

    7When Jacob’s sons heard what had happened, they returned from the field. They were filled with grief and fury, because Shechem had committed an outrage in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done.

    Open Genesis 34:7
  • 2 Samuel 12:10

    10Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’

    Open 2 Samuel 12:10
  • 2 Samuel 3:28–29

    28Afterward, David heard about this and said, “I and my kingdom are forever guiltless before the Lord concerning the blood of Abner son of Ner.

    29May it whirl over the head of Joab and over the entire house of his father, and may the house of Joab never be without one having a discharge or skin disease, or one who leans on a staff or falls by the sword or lacks food.”

    Open 2 Samuel 3:28–29
  • 1 Samuel 2:29

    29Why then do you kick at My sacrifice and offering that I have prescribed for My dwelling place? You have honored your sons more than Me by fattening yourselves with the best of all the offerings of My people Israel.’

    Open 1 Samuel 2:29
  • 1 Samuel 2:22–25

    22Now Eli was very old, and he heard about everything his sons were doing to all Israel and how they were sleeping with the women who served at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting.

    23“Why are you doing these things?” Eli said to his sons. “I hear about your wicked deeds from all these people.

    Open 1 Samuel 2:22–25
  • Psalm 101:8

    8Every morning I will remove all the wicked of the land, that I may cut off every evildoer from the city of the Lord.

    Open Psalm 101:8

22BSBAnd Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for violating his sister Tamar.

KJVAnd Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

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  • Genesis 31:24

    24But that night God came to Laban the Aramean in a dream and warned him, “Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad.”

    Open Genesis 31:24
  • Leviticus 19:17–18

    17You must not harbor hatred against your brother in your heart. Directly rebuke your neighbor, so that you will not incur guilt on account of him.

    18Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against any of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.

    Open Leviticus 19:17–18
  • Genesis 24:50

    50Laban and Bethuel answered, “This is from the Lord; we have no choice in the matter.

    Open Genesis 24:50
  • 1 John 3:15

    15Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that eternal life does not reside in a murderer.

    Open 1 John 3:15
  • 1 John 2:11

    11But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness. He does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

    Open 1 John 2:11
  • Ecclesiastes 7:9

    9Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger settles in the lap of a fool.

    Open Ecclesiastes 7:9

23BSBTwo years later, when Absalom’s sheepshearers were at Baal-hazor near Ephraim, he invited all the sons of the king.

KJVAnd it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal-hazor, which is beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king’s sons.

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  • 1 Samuel 25:4

    4While David was in the wilderness, he heard that Nabal was shearing sheep.

    Open 1 Samuel 25:4
  • Genesis 38:12–13

    12After a long time Judah’s wife, the daughter of Shua, died. When Judah had finished mourning, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite went up to his sheepshearers at Timnah.

    13When Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,”

    Open Genesis 38:12–13
  • 1 Samuel 25:7

    7Now I hear that it is time for shearing. When your shepherds were with us, we did not harass them, and nothing of theirs was missing the whole time they were in Carmel.

    Open 1 Samuel 25:7
  • 1 Kings 1:19

    19And he has sacrificed an abundance of oxen, fattened calves, and sheep, and has invited all the other sons of the king, as well as Abiathar the priest and Joab the commander of the army. But he has not invited your servant Solomon.

    Open 1 Kings 1:19
  • 1 Kings 1:25

    25For today he has gone down and sacrificed an abundance of oxen, fattened calves, and sheep, and has invited all the sons of the king, the commanders of the army, and Abiathar the priest. And behold, they are eating and drinking before him, saying, ‘Long live King Adonijah!’

    Open 1 Kings 1:25
  • 2 Kings 3:4

    4Now Mesha king of Moab was a sheep breeder, and he would render to the king of Israel a hundred thousand lambs and the wool of a hundred thousand rams.

    Open 2 Kings 3:4

24BSBAnd he went to the king and said, “Your servant has just hired shearers. Will the king and his servants please come with me?”

KJVAnd Absalom came to the king, and said, Behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; let the king, I beseech thee, and his servants go with thy servant.

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  • Jeremiah 41:6–7

    6And Ishmael son of Nethaniah went out from Mizpah to meet them, weeping as he went. When Ishmael encountered the men, he said, “Come to Gedaliah son of Ahikam.”

    7And when they came into the city, Ishmael son of Nethaniah and the men with him slaughtered them and threw them into a cistern.

    Open Jeremiah 41:6–7
  • 2 Samuel 11:8–15

    8Then he said to Uriah, “Go down to your house and wash your feet.” So Uriah left the palace, and a gift from the king followed him.

    9But Uriah slept at the door of the palace with all his master’s servants; he did not go down to his house.

    Open 2 Samuel 11:8–15
  • Psalm 55:21

    21His speech is smooth as butter, but war is in his heart. His words are softer than oil, yet they are swords unsheathed.

    Open Psalm 55:21
  • Psalm 12:2

    2They lie to one another; they speak with flattering lips and a double heart.

    Open Psalm 12:2

25BSB“No, my son,” the king replied, “we should not all go, or we would be a burden to you.” Although Absalom urged him, he was not willing to go, but gave him his blessing.

KJVAnd the king said to Absalom, Nay, my son, let us not all now go, lest we be chargeable unto thee. And he pressed him: howbeit he would not go, but blessed him.

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  • Ruth 2:4

    4Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and said to the harvesters, “The Lord be with you.” “The Lord bless you,” they replied.

    Open Ruth 2:4
  • Acts 16:15

    15And when she and her household had been baptized, she urged us, “If you consider me a believer in the Lord, come and stay at my house.” And she persuaded us.

    Open Acts 16:15
  • Luke 24:29

    29But they pleaded with Him, “Stay with us, for it is nearly evening and the day is almost over.” So He went in to stay with them.

    Open Luke 24:29
  • Genesis 19:2–3

    2and said, “My lords, please turn aside into the house of your servant; wash your feet and spend the night. Then you can rise early and go on your way.” “No,” they answered, “we will spend the night in the square.”

    3But Lot insisted so strongly that they followed him into his house. He prepared a feast for them and baked unleavened bread, and they ate.

    Open Genesis 19:2–3
  • Judges 19:7–10

    7The man got up to depart, but his father-in-law persuaded him, so he stayed there that night.

    8On the fifth day, he got up early in the morning to depart, but the girl’s father said, “Please refresh your heart.” So they waited until late afternoon and the two of them ate.

    Open Judges 19:7–10
  • Luke 14:23

    23So the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full.

    Open Luke 14:23

26BSB“If not,” said Absalom, “please let my brother Amnon go with us.” “Why should he go with you?” the king asked.

KJVThen said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee?

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  • 2 Samuel 11:13–15

    13Then David invited Uriah to eat and drink with him, and he got Uriah drunk. And in the evening Uriah went out to lie down on his cot with his master’s servants, but he did not go home.

    14The next morning David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it with Uriah.

    Open 2 Samuel 11:13–15
  • 2 Samuel 3:27

    27When Abner returned to Hebron, Joab pulled him aside into the gateway, as if to speak to him privately, and there Joab stabbed him in the stomach. So Abner died on account of the blood of Joab’s brother Asahel.

    Open 2 Samuel 3:27
  • Psalm 55:21

    21His speech is smooth as butter, but war is in his heart. His words are softer than oil, yet they are swords unsheathed.

    Open Psalm 55:21
  • 2 Samuel 20:9

    9“Are you well, my brother?” Joab asked Amasa. And with his right hand Joab grabbed Amasa by the beard to kiss him.

    Open 2 Samuel 20:9

27BSBBut Absalom urged him, so the king sent Amnon and the rest of his sons.

KJVBut Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him.

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  • Proverbs 26:24–26

    24A hateful man disguises himself with his speech, but he lays up deceit in his heart.

    25When he speaks graciously, do not believe him, for seven abominations fill his heart.

    Open Proverbs 26:24–26

28BSBNow Absalom had ordered his young men, “Watch Amnon until his heart is merry with wine, and when I order you to strike Amnon down, you are to kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be courageous and valiant!”

KJVNow Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

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  • Judges 19:6

    6So they sat down and the two of them ate and drank together. Then the girl’s father said to the man, “Please agree to stay overnight and let your heart be merry.”

    Open Judges 19:6
  • Judges 19:22

    22While they were enjoying themselves, suddenly the wicked men of the city surrounded the house. Pounding on the door, they said to the old man who owned the house, “Bring out the man who came to your house, so we can have relations with him!”

    Open Judges 19:22
  • Judges 19:9

    9When the man got up to depart with his concubine and his servant, his father-in-law, the girl’s father, said to him, “Look, the day is drawing to a close. Please spend the night. See, the day is almost over. Spend the night here, that your heart may be merry. Then you can get up early tomorrow for your journey home.”

    Open Judges 19:9
  • Ruth 3:7

    7After Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain. Then Ruth went in secretly, uncovered his feet, and lay down.

    Open Ruth 3:7
  • Nahum 1:10

    10For they will be entangled as with thorns and consumed like the drink of a drunkard—like stubble that is fully dry.

    Open Nahum 1:10
  • 1 Samuel 25:36–38

    36When Abigail returned to Nabal, there he was in the house, holding a feast fit for a king, in high spirits and very drunk. So she told him nothing until morning light.

    37In the morning when Nabal was sober, his wife told him about these events, and his heart failed within him, and he became like a stone.

    Open 1 Samuel 25:36–38

29BSBSo Absalom’s young men did to Amnon just as Absalom had ordered. Then all the other sons of the king got up, and each one fled on his mule.

KJVAnd the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king’s sons arose, and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled.

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  • 1 Kings 1:33

    33“Take my servants with you,” said the king. “Set my son Solomon on my own mule and take him down to Gihon.

    Open 1 Kings 1:33
  • 2 Samuel 18:9

    9Now Absalom was riding on his mule when he met the servants of David, and as the mule went under the thick branches of a large oak, Absalom’s head was caught fast in the tree. The mule under him kept going, so that he was suspended in midair.

    Open 2 Samuel 18:9
  • Genesis 36:24

    24These are the sons of Zibeon: Aiah and Anah. (This is the Anah who found the hot springs in the wilderness as he was pasturing the donkeys of his father Zibeon.)

    Open Genesis 36:24
  • Leviticus 19:19

    19You are to keep My statutes. You shall not crossbreed two different kinds of livestock; you shall not sow your fields with two kinds of seed; and you shall not wear clothing made of two kinds of material.

    Open Leviticus 19:19
  • Proverbs 29:12

    12If a ruler listens to lies, all his officials will be wicked.

    Open Proverbs 29:12
  • 2 Kings 1:9–12

    9Then King Ahaziah sent to Elijah a captain with his company of fifty men. So the captain went up to Elijah, who was sitting on top of a hill, and said to him, “Man of God, the king declares, ‘Come down!’”

    10Elijah answered the captain, “If I am a man of God, may fire come down from heaven and consume you and your fifty men.” And fire came down from heaven and consumed the captain and his fifty men.

    Open 2 Kings 1:9–12

30BSBWhile they were on the way, a report reached David: “Absalom has struck down all the sons of the king; not one of them is left!”

KJVAnd it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left.

31BSBThen the king stood up, tore his clothes, and lay down on the ground. And all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.

KJVThen the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent.

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  • 2 Samuel 1:11

    11Then David took hold of his own clothes and tore them, and all the men who were with him did the same.

    Open 2 Samuel 1:11
  • 2 Samuel 12:16

    16David pleaded with God for the boy. He fasted and went into his house and spent the night lying in sackcloth on the ground.

    Open 2 Samuel 12:16
  • Job 1:20

    20Then Job stood up, tore his robe, and shaved his head. He fell to the ground and worshiped,

    Open Job 1:20
  • Genesis 37:34

    34Then Jacob tore his clothes, put sackcloth around his waist, and mourned for his son many days.

    Open Genesis 37:34
  • 2 Samuel 3:31

    31Then David ordered Joab and all the people with him, “Tear your clothes, put on sackcloth, and mourn before Abner.” And King David himself walked behind the funeral bier.

    Open 2 Samuel 3:31
  • Genesis 37:29

    29When Reuben returned to the pit and saw that Joseph was not there, he tore his clothes,

    Open Genesis 37:29

32BSBBut Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah, spoke up: “My lord must not think they have killed all the sons of the king, for only Amnon is dead. In fact, Absalom has planned this since the day Amnon violated his sister Tamar.

KJVAnd Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king’s sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.

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  • 1 Samuel 16:9

    9Next Jesse presented Shammah, but Samuel said, “The Lord has not chosen this one either.”

    Open 1 Samuel 16:9
  • 2 Samuel 13:3

    3Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah. Jonadab was a very shrewd man,

    Open 2 Samuel 13:3
  • Proverbs 24:11–12

    11Rescue those being led away to death, and restrain those stumbling toward the slaughter.

    12If you say, “Behold, we did not know about this,” does not He who weighs hearts consider it? Does not the One who guards your life know? Will He not repay a man according to his deeds?

    Open Proverbs 24:11–12
  • Genesis 27:41

    41Esau held a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him. And Esau said in his heart, “The days of mourning for my father are at hand; then I will kill my brother Jacob.”

    Open Genesis 27:41
  • Psalm 7:14

    14Behold, the wicked man travails with evil; he conceives trouble and births falsehood.

    Open Psalm 7:14

33BSBSo now, my lord the king, do not take to heart the report that all the sons of the king are dead. Only Amnon is dead.”

KJVNow therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.

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  • 2 Samuel 19:19

    19and said, “My lord, do not hold me guilty, and do not remember your servant’s wrongdoing on the day my lord the king left Jerusalem. May the king not take it to heart.

    Open 2 Samuel 19:19

34BSBMeanwhile, Absalom had fled. When the young man standing watch looked up, he saw many people coming down the road west of him, along the side of the hill. And the watchman went and reported to the king, “I see men coming from the direction of Horonaim, along the side of the hill.”

KJVBut Absalom fled. And the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him.

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  • Proverbs 28:17

    17A man burdened by bloodguilt will flee into the Pit; let no one support him.

    Open Proverbs 28:17
  • Amos 5:19

    19It will be like a man who flees from a lion, only to encounter a bear, or who enters his house and rests his hand against the wall, only to be bitten by a snake.

    Open Amos 5:19
  • Genesis 4:8–14

    8Then Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let us go out to the field.” And while they were in the field, Cain rose up against his brother Abel and killed him.

    9And the Lord said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?” “I do not know!” he answered. “Am I my brother’s keeper?”

    Open Genesis 4:8–14
  • 2 Samuel 13:37–38

    37Now Absalom fled and went to Talmai son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur. But David mourned for his son every day.

    38After Absalom had fled and gone to Geshur, he stayed there three years.

    Open 2 Samuel 13:37–38

35BSBSo Jonadab said to the king, “Look, the sons of the king have arrived! It is just as your servant said.”

KJVAnd Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king’s sons come: as thy servant said, so it is.

36BSBAnd as he finished speaking, the sons of the king came in, wailing loudly. Then the king and all his servants also wept very bitterly.

KJVAnd it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking, that, behold, the king’s sons came, and lifted up their voice and wept: and the king also and all his servants wept very sore.

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  • 2 Samuel 12:21

    21“What is this you have done?” his servants asked. “While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but when he died, you got up and ate.”

    Open 2 Samuel 12:21
  • 2 Samuel 13:15

    15Then Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was greater than the love he previously had. “Get up!” he said to her. “Be gone!”

    Open 2 Samuel 13:15
  • 2 Samuel 18:33

    33The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he walked, he cried out, “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!”

    Open 2 Samuel 18:33

37BSBNow Absalom fled and went to Talmai son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur. But David mourned for his son every day.

KJVBut Absalom fled, and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day.

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  • 2 Samuel 3:3

    3his second was Chileab, by Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel; his third was Absalom, the son of Maacah daughter of King Talmai of Geshur;

    Open 2 Samuel 3:3
  • 2 Samuel 14:23

    23So Joab got up, went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.

    Open 2 Samuel 14:23
  • 1 Chronicles 3:2

    2the third was Absalom the son of Maacah daughter of King Talmai of Geshur; the fourth was Adonijah the son of Haggith;

    Open 1 Chronicles 3:2
  • 2 Samuel 13:34

    34Meanwhile, Absalom had fled. When the young man standing watch looked up, he saw many people coming down the road west of him, along the side of the hill. And the watchman went and reported to the king, “I see men coming from the direction of Horonaim, along the side of the hill.”

    Open 2 Samuel 13:34
  • 2 Samuel 14:32

    32“Look,” said Absalom, “I sent for you and said, ‘Come here. I want to send you to the king to ask: Why have I come back from Geshur? It would be better for me if I were still there.’ So now, let me see the king’s face, and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me.”

    Open 2 Samuel 14:32

38BSBAfter Absalom had fled and gone to Geshur, he stayed there three years.

KJVSo Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.

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  • 2 Samuel 14:23

    23So Joab got up, went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.

    Open 2 Samuel 14:23
  • 2 Samuel 15:8

    8For your servant made a vow while dwelling in Geshur of Aram, saying: ‘If indeed the Lord brings me back to Jerusalem, I will worship the Lord in Hebron.’”

    Open 2 Samuel 15:8
  • 2 Samuel 14:32

    32“Look,” said Absalom, “I sent for you and said, ‘Come here. I want to send you to the king to ask: Why have I come back from Geshur? It would be better for me if I were still there.’ So now, let me see the king’s face, and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me.”

    Open 2 Samuel 14:32

39BSBAnd King David longed to go to Absalom, for he had been consoled over Amnon’s death.

KJVAnd the soul of king David longed to go forth unto Absalom: for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead.

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  • Genesis 24:67

    67And Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah and took Rebekah as his wife. And Isaac loved her and was comforted after his mother’s death.

    Open Genesis 24:67
  • Genesis 38:12

    12After a long time Judah’s wife, the daughter of Shua, died. When Judah had finished mourning, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite went up to his sheepshearers at Timnah.

    Open Genesis 38:12
  • Genesis 37:35

    35All his sons and daughters tried to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said. “I will go down to Sheol mourning for my son.” So his father wept for him.

    Open Genesis 37:35
  • Psalm 84:2

    2My soul longs, even faints, for the courts of the Lord; my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.

    Open Psalm 84:2
  • 2 Samuel 12:19–23

    19When David saw that his servants were whispering to one another, he perceived that the child was dead. So he asked his servants, “Is the child dead?” “He is dead,” they replied.

    20Then David got up from the ground, washed and anointed himself, changed his clothes, and went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request they set food before him, and he ate.

    Open 2 Samuel 12:19–23
  • Deuteronomy 28:32

    32Your sons and daughters will be given to another nation, while your eyes grow weary looking for them day after day, with no power in your hand.

    Open Deuteronomy 28:32